How Can Jesus Be God If He Prayed to God?

Understanding the Father, the Son, and Why Christians Believe in One God

Shortly before His arrest, Jesus prayed a remarkable prayer. He lifted His eyes toward heaven, addressed God as His Father, and spoke about the work He had come to accomplish. He asked the Father to glorify Him, then referred to the glory He had shared with the Father before the world existed (John 17:1–5). This is a fascinating moment because Jesus speaks to the Father as someone distinct from Himself while describing a relationship that existed before creation.

For someone trying to understand Christianity, that raises a reasonable question. If Jesus is God, why is He praying to God? Is He talking to Himself? And if Jesus and the Father are distinct, doesn’t that suggest there are two gods rather than one?

These questions become especially important after considering what Jesus claimed about His identity. In our previous post, we examined His authority, the titles He used, and the unusual ways He spoke about His relationship with God. The Gospel accounts present someone who seems to claim far more than the authority of an ordinary religious teacher. Yet Jesus also prays, obeys, and depends upon the Father. How do those things belong together?

Jesus’ Prayers Were Real

Prayer was a regular part of Jesus’ life. Luke tells us that He often withdrew to lonely places to pray (Luke 5:16). He prayed before important decisions, gave thanks to the Father, and taught His disciples how to pray. Those moments certainly provide examples for believers to follow, but it would be difficult to explain all of Jesus’ prayers as lessons intended for other people.

Consider what happened in the Garden of Gethsemane. Jesus knew that His arrest and suffering were approaching. Mark describes Him as deeply distressed and troubled. He fell to the ground and prayed that, if possible, the coming suffering might pass from Him. Yet He submitted Himself to the Father’s will (Mark 14:32–36).

There is no reason to treat His distress as anything other than genuine. Jesus was facing something terrible, and He expressed His desire to be spared while remaining committed to the purpose for which He had come. If His prayers were merely a performance, it would be difficult to explain their emotional weight. The Gospels present His anguish, prayer, and obedience as real experiences.

Jesus’ prayers were not simply examples of religious behavior. They expressed a genuine relationship with the Father. To understand how Christians can believe Jesus is God, we first need to recognize that Christianity does not teach that Jesus and the Father are the same person.

Jesus Is Not the Father

If Jesus and the Father were the same person, His prayers would create an enormous problem. We would have to explain why Jesus addressed Himself as though He were someone else. But historic Christian teaching distinguishes the Father from the Son, and that distinction appears throughout the Gospels.

At Jesus’ baptism, Matthew describes Jesus coming up from the water, the Spirit of God descending, and a voice from heaven identifying Jesus as the beloved Son (Matthew 3:16–17). The account presents the Father, Son, and Holy Spirit as distinct. Jesus is not moving between different roles or pretending to be someone else.

John 17 provides an even more personal picture. Jesus speaks about being sent by the Father, completing the work He was given, and sharing glory with the Father before creation. These statements describe a relationship that Christians understand as existing before Jesus entered human life.

When Christians say Jesus is God, then they are not saying Jesus is the Father. They believe Jesus is the eternal Son, personally distinct from the Father to whom He prayed. That explanation raises another question. If the Father is God and the Son is also God, how can Christians continue to insist that there is only one God?

The Bible’s Insistence That God Is One

For centuries, Israel understood itself as the people of the one true God. Deuteronomy 6:4 calls Israel to recognize that the Lord is one, and the Old Testament repeatedly distinguishes Him from the gods worshiped by surrounding nations. Jesus Himself affirmed this belief when He repeated Israel’s confession while answering a question about the greatest commandment (Mark 12:29).

The earliest Christians did not abandon that conviction when they began worshiping Jesus. They continued to believe in one God while speaking about Jesus in ways that went far beyond what they would have said about an ordinary human teacher.

Paul provides an interesting example in 1 Corinthians 8:6. He speaks of one God, the Father, from whom all things come, and one Lord, Jesus Christ, through whom all things came. Many Christian interpreters understand Paul as including Jesus within the one God’s identity and creative work rather than presenting Him as a second deity.

That interpretation is not without debate, and the passage does not explain the entire Trinity. It does show the challenge facing the earliest Christians. They believed there was only one God, yet they recognized Jesus as sharing in works and honors associated with God. Their understanding of Jesus had to account for both convictions.

There was also something else about Jesus that required explanation. The one Christians confessed as divine had lived a genuinely human life.

What Does Jesus’ Humanity Have to Do With His Prayers?

Christians believe Jesus is fully God and fully human. It is a familiar statement, but understanding its meaning requires us to think carefully about what the Gospels reveal. John begins his Gospel by describing the Word as existing with God and as being God. Then he announces that the Word became flesh (John 1:1–14). The Christian claim is not that God merely appeared human or spoke through an ordinary human messenger. It is that the eternal Son actually entered human life.

Jesus’ humanity was not a disguise. He experienced hunger, exhaustion, sorrow, suffering, and death. He formed relationships, faced temptation, and lived with the realities of being human, though Christians believe He remained without sin. Prayer was part of that genuine human life.

Paul develops this picture in Philippians 2:5–11. He describes Christ humbling Himself, taking the nature of a servant, and becoming obedient to death. Paul connects Jesus’ obedience with His willingness to enter the human condition rather than presenting it as proof that He was never divine. This helps us understand why Jesus prayed. As a real human being, He sought the Father’s will and lived in faithful obedience. His relationship with the Father was not suspended when He became human, and His humanity was not made less real because Christians believe He is divine.

We should avoid imagining Jesus as two separate people, one human and one divine. Historic Christian teaching understands Him as one person, the eternal Son, who possesses both a divine nature and a human nature. The same Jesus who shared glory with the Father before creation experienced human weakness, prayed, and obeyed. His humanity helps explain why He prayed, while His relationship with the Father explains whom He was addressing. But understanding how Christians hold together the distinct persons of the Father and Son with the belief that God is one requires us to consider the Trinity itself.

One God, Three Persons

Christians developed careful language to express what they believed Scripture revealed about God’s identity. We call this teaching the Trinity. The doctrine teaches that there is one God who eternally exists as three distinct persons: the Father, the Son, and the Holy Spirit. Each person is fully and equally God, yet there are not three gods. The Father is not the Son, the Son is not the Holy Spirit, and the Holy Spirit is not the Father. They are personally distinct while sharing the one undivided divine nature.

Christians often summarize this by saying that God is one in being and three in person. Christianity is not claiming that God is one person and three persons in exactly the same sense. The distinction between being and person is part of how Christians express what they believe Scripture teaches. The word person also requires care because we ordinarily use it to describe separate human individuals, which is not what the doctrine means.

Even with that explanation, we may struggle to imagine how God can exist this way. Everything we know from our experience tells us that one human being is one person. We naturally bring that understanding into our questions about God. But should we expect the Creator to exist within the same boundaries as the people He created?

Imagine standing beside the ocean. You can see its water, feel its waves, study its movements, and learn a great deal about what lies beneath the surface. You could spend a lifetime studying it without ever being able to gather the entire ocean into a bucket. Your inability to contain it does not mean that what you have learned is false. You can know the ocean in meaningful ways without possessing the whole of it. That illustration does not explain how the Trinity works. It simply helps us recognize the difference between knowing something truly and understanding it completely.

Christians believe God has made Himself known, but that does not mean our minds can fully comprehend everything about His nature. The Creator is not restricted by the conditions of human existence. At the same time, God’s greatness does not mean contradictions become true or that we can dismiss difficult questions by claiming they are beyond understanding.

We still need to examine the evidence and ask whether the Christian explanation is reasonable. The doctrine of the Trinity attempts to hold together what Scripture teaches about the one God and the distinct persons of the Father, Son, and Holy Spirit. It gives us a way to express those beliefs without claiming to explain everything about God’s existence.

But What About the Verses That Seem to Contradict This?

Some of the strongest objections to Jesus’ divinity come directly from His own words. In John 14:28, Jesus tells His disciples that the Father is greater than He is. In John 17:3, He addresses the Father as the only true God. In Gethsemane, He submits His will to the Father’s will. Someone reading these passages might reasonably conclude that Jesus considered Himself subordinate to God rather than equal with Him. Those statements deserve serious consideration. Any explanation of Jesus’ identity must account for them rather than selecting only the passages that seem to support a preferred conclusion.

The difficulty is that the Gospel of John also contains some of the New Testament’s strongest statements about Jesus’ divine identity. John begins by describing the Word as both with God and as God (John 1:1). Jesus speaks of sharing glory with the Father before creation (John 17:5), and Thomas addresses the risen Jesus as his Lord and God (John 20:28). We cannot ignore these passages any more than we can dismiss Jesus’ statements about His obedience to the Father.

Christians have historically understood Jesus’ submission in light of His genuine humanity and His mission as the Son sent by the Father. His obedience does not necessarily mean that He possesses an inferior divine nature. Being personally distinct from the Father does not prevent Him from sharing the Father’s divine nature. This understanding allows Christians to take Jesus’ prayers and obedience seriously without denying His divinity.

Not everyone interprets these passages the same way, and some of the disagreements deserve more attention than we can give them here. For now, the important question is whether our understanding of Jesus accounts for everything the Gospels reveal about Him, including the statements that initially seem difficult to reconcile.

Returning to Jesus’ Prayer

Think again about Jesus praying to the Father shortly before His arrest. What initially seemed contradictory begins to make more sense when we understand what Christians actually believe about His identity. Jesus was not praying to Himself. Christians believe He is the eternal Son, personally distinct from the Father while sharing the one divine nature. When He became human, He experienced genuine human needs, including the need for prayer, and lived in faithful obedience to the Father. His prayers were real, just as His humanity was real.

The doctrine of the Trinity does not explain everything about God’s existence, nor does it eliminate every difficult question. It does, however, provide a way to understand why Christians can believe Jesus is God without believing He is the Father or abandoning their conviction that there is only one God.

For Christians, the prayers of Jesus are not an awkward exception to the doctrine. They are part of the biblical evidence the doctrine seeks to explain.

Explore the Question Further with a Free Worksheet

Understanding why Jesus prayed to the Father takes careful thought, and you don’t have to work through every question at once. I’ve created a free, seven-page guided reflection worksheet to help you examine the biblical passages for yourself, compare what Scripture teaches about Jesus and the Father, and explore the Trinity more deeply.

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Where We Go Next

We have spent most of our time considering the Father and the Son, but Scripture also speaks of the Holy Spirit in remarkable ways. At Jesus’ baptism, the Spirit descends, and Jesus later promises that the Spirit will come to His followers. Throughout the New Testament, the Spirit is described as teaching, guiding, speaking, and acting.

Is the Holy Spirit simply God’s power at work, or does Scripture present the Spirit as personally distinct from the Father and the Son? That will be our next question as we continue examining the biblical foundations of the Trinity.

Questions for Reflection

1. When you read Jesus’ prayers, what do they reveal about His relationship with the Father?
2. Why does Jesus’ genuine humanity matter when considering His identity and His obedience to the Father?
3. How does understanding the distinction between the Father and the Son change the way you read Jesus’ prayers?

Next in Theological Thursday:

Who Is the Holy Spirit: A Person or God’s Power?

Examining What Jesus and the Apostles Taught About the Spirit